Violence against anyone does matter and the fact that aggressive humans think that their problem will be hidden by the people they intimidate will only be effective as long as we force our opinions on the victims, and make them feel judged.
I know the victims are suffering for many reasons and will not even begin to tell you the personal judgement's I put on myself for finding myself with an incredibly abusive man, so I ask you: please all don't judge the victim.
And I also ask do not support the ones who are handing out the intimidating violence behind the closed doors of their homes, if they were our friends who treated other friends the same way I believe we would evict the abusive ones from our lives.
So why when a mate abuses their partner we take them for a drink to divert their attention, we pat the victim on the back and imply it was not meant and another try could be something to think about and we put a plaster, so to speak, over the top and wait for it to go away.
I am not asking you to interfere; I am asking you to not have these people as your friends, because if all the abusive people in the world found their friends disappearing, their work falling away and they in turn had no support maybe, just maybe, we could start to make a dent in getting rid of this terrible life innocent partners and children need to endure.
We all deserve a peaceful end to EACH AND EVERY DAY!!